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Holding the Frame
Not sure if you’ve read George Orwell’s 1984, but I think about that novel a lot these days. It's pretty deeply Jungian in its bones. Orwell wasn’t guessing at the future; he was paying close attention to the psychological and relational patterns already present in his time and indicating that history repeats itself when unexamined. You might've heard Jung's quote: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Anyway, what f
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Feb 83 min read


Unpacking the Echoes
You ever notice how we carry stories in our bodies? Like ghosts stitched into our nervous systems. Most of us are out here trying to love...
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May 21, 20252 min read


The Role of the Nervous System in PTSD in the Myth of Inana
There is an ancient Sumerian myth that lives in the bones of many women. She came before the Greeks spoke of her as the simply beautiful...
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Apr 15, 20252 min read


Releasing Ecstasy Anxiety: Embracing Pleasure and Trust in Intimacy
Let’s start with one simple fact: the mind is a powerful thing. It can liberate us, or it can restrict us. In the case of orgasm, the...
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Apr 13, 20253 min read


Medusa's Gaze: Confronting our rage and unearthing burried beauty
Many of us have heard the myth of Medusa turning anyone who looked at her to stone. Well, like fairytales, myths describe unconscious...
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Apr 12, 20252 min read


Repunzle Part 1: Am I Giving Too Much or Not Enough?
Do you remember the original Rapunzel? As a kid, I loved her long, flowing hair that she’d let down for the prince to climb up. The witch...
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Apr 8, 20252 min read


Breaking Free: The Inner Journey of Repunzle Part 2
Repunzle's journey—from being locked away in isolation to eventually finding freedom and self-empowerment—parallels the struggle many...
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Apr 5, 20252 min read


The Push-Pull of Love: How Early Wounds Shape Adult Intimacy
If you were raised by a mother who had unresolved issues, you may find yourself unknowingly carrying patterns of fear-avoidant attachment...
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Mar 30, 20252 min read


Patience vs. Waiting: Understanding the Difference
When you're navigating the waters of starting a relationship with someone who appears emotionally available but may not be ready to...
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Mar 24, 20252 min read


Breaking the Cycle: How Emotional Immaturity in a Parent Can Lead to Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners
When one of your parents was emotionally immature, it can shape the way you approach relationships in profound ways, often without...
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Mar 14, 20253 min read


What is Echoism?
We hear a lot about narcissism these days—about self-obsession, entitlement, emotional manipulation. And yet, some of the most toxic...
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Feb 5, 20254 min read


The Path to Wholeness: Overcoming Shame and Reclaiming Our Authenticity
The Christian interpretation of the story of Mary, Joseph, and the Garden of Eden has shaped how we view ourselves, particularly through...
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Feb 2, 20253 min read


How Trauma Impacts our Sense of Safety
I learned Focusing through the teachings of Leslie Ellis, a truly gifted guide whose work continues to shape how I understand trauma and...
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Mar 20, 20242 min read


How Trauma is Held in the Body
"Trauma is not simply a memory in the mind, but a set of bodily sensations, a set of reactions and feelings that have not been fully...
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Feb 6, 20242 min read
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