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The Women Who Find Their Way Here
There’s a certain kind of woman who finds her way into this space. She’s bright, sensitive, thoughtful. She feels deeply, thinks...
angelanikitacara
Aug 7, 20253 min read


Aphrodite Unbound: Reclaiming Your Power to Create
You may've heard of the Greek Goddess Aphrodite as the Goddess of Love and Beauty. Fair enough, but Aphrodite isn't just the goddess of...
angelanikitacara
May 22, 20251 min read


The Role of the Nervous System in PTSD in the Myth of Inana
There is an ancient Sumerian myth that lives in the bones of many women. She came before the Greeks spoke of her as the simply beautiful...
angelanikitacara
Apr 15, 20252 min read


Releasing Ecstasy Anxiety: Embracing Pleasure and Trust in Intimacy
Let’s start with one simple fact: the mind is a powerful thing. It can liberate us, or it can restrict us. In the case of orgasm, the...
angelanikitacara
Apr 13, 20253 min read


Medusa's Gaze: Confronting our rage and unearthing burried beauty
Many of us have heard the myth of Medusa turning anyone who looked at her to stone. Well, like fairytales, myths describe unconscious...
angelanikitacara
Apr 12, 20252 min read


Repunzle Part 1: Am I Giving Too Much or Not Enough?
Do you remember the original Rapunzel? As a kid, I loved her long, flowing hair that she’d let down for the prince to climb up. The witch...
angelanikitacara
Apr 8, 20252 min read


The Intersection of Ecstasy, Anxiety, and the Myth of Anorgasmia
In a world where control is often seen as a strength, it’s no surprise that many women struggle with the idea of letting go, especially...
angelanikitacara
Mar 31, 20254 min read


The Push-Pull of Love: How Early Wounds Shape Adult Intimacy
If you were raised by a mother who had unresolved issues, you may find yourself unknowingly carrying patterns of fear-avoidant attachment...
angelanikitacara
Mar 30, 20252 min read


Patience vs. Waiting: Understanding the Difference
When you're navigating the waters of starting a relationship with someone who appears emotionally available but may not be ready to...
angelanikitacara
Mar 24, 20252 min read


Breaking the Cycle: How Emotional Immaturity in a Parent Can Lead to Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners
When one of your parents was emotionally immature, it can shape the way you approach relationships in profound ways, often without...
angelanikitacara
Mar 14, 20253 min read


What is Echoism?
We hear a lot about narcissism these days—about self-obsession, entitlement, emotional manipulation. And yet, some of the most toxic...
angelanikitacara
Feb 5, 20254 min read


The Path to Wholeness: Overcoming Shame and Reclaiming Our Authenticity
The Christian interpretation of the story of Mary, Joseph, and the Garden of Eden has shaped how we view ourselves, particularly through...
angelanikitacara
Feb 2, 20253 min read


Why Do I Feel Lighter After Therapy?
It’s not always the case, and that’s okay. Some days you might feel lighter, and other times, you might not. It all depends on what...
angelanikitacara
Aug 15, 20242 min read


How Trauma Impacts our Sense of Safety
I learned Focusing through the teachings of Leslie Ellis, a truly gifted guide whose work continues to shape how I understand trauma and...
angelanikitacara
Mar 20, 20242 min read


How Trauma is Held in the Body
"Trauma is not simply a memory in the mind, but a set of bodily sensations, a set of reactions and feelings that have not been fully...
angelanikitacara
Feb 6, 20242 min read


How Focusing-Oriented Therapy Supports Sexual Healing and Intimacy
Focusing-Oriented Therapy (FOT) brings something deeply sacred to sex therapy—something beyond fixing, beyond managing symptoms. It...
angelanikitacara
Feb 2, 20242 min read


Why Therapists Might Explore Dreams in Therapy
Dreams are invitations from the deeper layers of our being. They come when the mind quiets and the body softens, offering us truths that...
angelanikitacara
Feb 1, 20243 min read
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